Hi Mouthy,
I am not a catholic sometimes I'm not anything .At this present time it depends on my mood but I'm definately not a JW. I haven't had the the horrible experiences that you have had to endure but I can sympathise with you and understand where you are coming from.
You know I am sure that there are people in this world who have been lifted up to walk on mountains through help from the catholic church and maybe if you had been in a different place at a different time you might just hold opposite views .Obviously all of us can only relate to the events that we have seen for ourselves and there is no way I can blame you for thinking as you do, and I would not even consider doing so.
I have known what I would call good catholics and bad catholics.As the saying goes, by their fruits you will know them.I have been to three catholic funeral services' for relatives and at one of them I did not like the comments from the priest the others services I thought were brilliant.The bottom line is how much love to their fellow man does a person show ,that is what really counts.
There is a man called Lord Charles Brocket he wrote a book about his life called " call me charlie" He is a member of the British aristocracy and he was sent to prison for attempting an insurance scam which he did not go through with, never the less they hammered him with a lenghty sentence to set an example.He had served as an officer in the British Army in Northern Ireland and Cyprus.Cutting a long story short while he was in prison he went to the catholic priest for advice not because he was catholic but because he found that catholic priests were the most effective in dealing with problems while he was in the army .The priest gave him some sound advice.So there we see another side of the coin as it were. The book by the way is a damn good read.
Edmond.